Older generation Hakka Lady

I am "Hakka Mui". Every time when people asking me what is my dialect, i will so proud to say i am "Hakka yan". It is because i can listen all praises about Hakka girl like is a good wife, hardworking, thrifty....

Recently my grandma is in Singapore for having a long break. Everything is fine earlier days, but things getting change and worst for me. I need to report myself home after works. Everyday need to mention that i am not having dinner with them( My grandma, aunt and her hubby). Although i have mention i am not going to have dinner the day before, but still will receive a message late evening saying that my grandma already cook for me. How am i going to have heavy dinner after gym? The dishes also not my favor and the taste is too light for me. I am so sorry that i am being too picky.

Another so called save more money method. A big tin of baked beans even me myself can finish it. I can't imagine my grandma only used half of it to cook. Normally dinner will have at least 2 dishes, but my grandma said "chin cai la" steam a fish is good enough for 3 peoples -_-'''

Apart of this, my daily routine also affected. Having an early morning cold shower is refreshing and i love it. Blow dry my hair is a must after shower. I choose to do it out of my room as my grandma still sleeping at that time.

The conversation between me and my grandma at 7.15am.
Grandma: Why not you blow dry your hair in the room?
Me : You still sleeping ma, then i don't want to kacau you.
Grandma: I am wake up already. You know is even more noisier you blow dry your hair outside there?
Me : Really?
Grandma: Yaaa. You will disturb your aunt was sleeping at the other room there. You better do it in the room because you only kacau me not everybody.
Me : Ok lor. ( @%$%@ in my heart)

Two more weeks to go, i need to be more patience. Hope i will not become like this when i am old. From now on i need to earn more and save more money to buy a house. There is no more constraint, no more boundary, only report to myself.